Faith Covenant Church believes in investing in the the spiritual lives of children!
When we dedicate a time in the worship service that acknowledges children, they receive a message that says, “We know you are here, you matter to us. We listen to what you say and value it. You belong here. We like you.”
The current statistics reveal that 7 out of 10 children who attend church as second graders will leave after age 18 because they never felt it was their church. It was their parents’ church, a gathering that valued adults and not children. We value children and we want them to know it!
Psalm 139 says we were not hidden from God when we were in the secret place. God gave us form and shape. He knit us together. Knitting is not a hands-off process; it is intimate. Every stitch has the touch of the Creator. Babies come to us not as blank slates upon which we write but as those who know intimacy with their Creator!
To You Who Bring Small Children to Church
There you are sitting in worship or Bible study. Your child, or toddler, is restless. Perhaps they’re even a little boisterous. You try to silence them, and nothing. You try to pacify them with food or toys, and nothing. Eventually, you resort to the last thing you wanted to do: you pick them up, and before a watching audience, you make the march out of the auditorium. All the while, you’re a little embarrassed. Maybe you’re a little frustrated too. You might even think to yourself, “There’s no point in coming to church. I get nothing out of it because I have to constantly care for my kid.”
I want you — you mothers and/or fathers — to know just how encouraging you are to so many. The little elderly woman who often fills alone beams with a smile at the sight of you wrestling with your little one. She’s been there before. She knows how hard it can be, but she smiles because to hear that brings back precious memories. To see young parents and their small children brighten her day, and she may have just received bad news this week about her health, but seeing the vitality of young ones removes — if but for a moment — her fears.
The older man who always seems to be grouchy notices you too. He’s always talking about how children in this day have no respect or sense of good. But, he sees you — a young family — in church, and you don’t miss any gathering. Like clockwork, he can depend on the sight of you and your young family. You give him hope that maybe the church isn’t doomed after all, because there are still young parents who love God enough to bring their restless children to worship.
Bring your children to church. If you don’t hear crying, the church is dying. As hard as it might be for you as a parent who’s half-asleep, keep on doing what you’re doing. You are an encouragement, and you’re starting off your children’s lives as you should.
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